Solo, I remember seeing that article back when I was new to SR, and I saved it for future reference. I could go down the "toxic" list and check off almost all of the items as being characteristic of not only XAH's and my marriage but of every relationship I'd ever been in, all the way back to my teens. At least I was consistent, hey?
Anyway, I think it's a great article and does a good job of showing how healthy and unhealthy relationships differ from each other. Thanks for the useful post.