When I talked my husband into letting me go back to drinking the last time I asked him to do me a favor. If he knew I was buzzed to not speak to me. At least not to say anything that would set me off. He complied. Whenever he knew I was coming home after being out with friends he would sleep in the back bedroom. By the time I got home he would already be there.
Great way to live.
The crap that we'll do to protect out drinking.