I recently filed and had a knee jerk kick-in-the-gut reaction to the boiler plate for my county. A standing TRO applies to all divorce cases here and speaks to things like debt, paying bills, child care, pet care, frequency and content of communication, etc. I almost sounds like personal accusations, which I'm sure is how he'll take it.
I haven't read any of your previous posts, but I'm guessing you, like many of us, are used to being the shock absorber for natural repercussions of his actions. Trust your gut and initial decision. What you're doing is reasonable.
You aren't required to put yourself at risk (emotionally, physically, financially or legally) to make him more comfortable.
It doesn't make you a bad person to protect yourself.
(I might be projecting and talking to myself now...)