Another day another doubt
Update lawyer filed the papers for divorce including an affidavit as to why we need AH to leave the homestead and a TRO keeping him from talking about marital/divorce issues with kids. I have been watching the mood swings from a distance via texting and messages. AH goes from angry to feeling sorry for himself to remorse. I know the lawyer I got is a shark its the only recommendation that I received, what I don't know is how many of these things are common(TRO) etc. AH is trying to get me to remove it and pull back the affidavit but that makes me feel vulnerable. He basically offered to sign pretty much anything to make that happen for fear of his reputation. This is all a lot and I really don't know what the right thing to do is. So i am trying to trust my initial plan. I have no doubt we shouldn't be together and I am tired of feeling vulnerable to someone else behavior and that includes financially. So is it better to trust the shark than my heart? Probably