Hi Petat...just wanted to let you know that I am in a similar situation. My AH got back from a 30 day treatment center 2 weeks ago and started drinking again within a couple if days. I have been struggling so much about if I should leave or what. Unfortunately I don't have much advice because I am not even sure what I am going to do. But, just wanted to let you know that you are not alone. I posted here a few days ago about my situation and got some very nice replies. It really helped me just to get it all out too. I will be thinking of you...