Is what worth it?
I've read a lot of other posts and nowherr is there a success story... something to say this will work out, keep supporting him and all will be well.
I think the hardest thing is that I've realised that it will never be allright. You have to accept that you will live in this constant fear and stress or you have to make a break.
I think it helps that you do realize that staying with an active alcoholic who isn't giving their all to recovery is a life filled with anxiety, stress and financial hardship.
I think it helps to understand you do you have choices, you may not like those choices but you do have them and you do not have to live with active alcoholism.