Hey OT, you are doing good. You really are. Everything that he lost or gave up, is what he lost and gave up, not you. So he stopped his health coverage, well, that's not on you, and you are not married, so you won't get stuck with any of this. He's in a shelter, well, at least he found a place to sleep. (eyeroll here). He ran away from home so many times, of course he knew where he could find a place to sleep.
My ex, used to tell me that he was sleeping in his office under his desk. (lol). He was sleeping with his gf.
You have a day off work tomorrow. Please spend this doing things that make you happy. Did you need or want to pick up some flowers to put in front of your new house?
((((((((((((hugs))))))))))))
amy