Thanks, Leigh, and Gilmer. The grant lady did email me back today after I sent her another email. She said she had to talk to the board about the grant. More waiting.
I respect people's privacy. I have no time for those who don't. But I've been put in the awful position of knowing my friends affair secret, and we have mutual friends. It's really bringing my mood down. But I can't let it, I can't get sick.