Originally Posted by
AnvilheadII 
the crap they get in their heads as IMPORTANT......oy. soooo nice of him to sic three car salesman on you. but i guess if it has to be a choice between drunkards and car salesmen, i'd take the car guys!!!
I noticed that about my ex-boyfriend too. Very interesting… I couldn't put my finger on it but as a grown man of 48, I couldn't understand why he was focused on something's that shouldn't of even been a priority unless you were a teenager. Especially when his life is falling apart he had nowhere to live he's losing his job he's broke and he's behind on his child support. I couldn't understand why he was focus on trips to Florida, working on his boat, or doing other stupid things that didn't matter. It's kind of like his whole life was an avoidance of everything that was real. Is this common? Is it because the alcoholic is avoiding or they have no sense of responsibility or they're just selfish and they want to do the things that are fun and then void the things that aren't fun?