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Old 05-27-2017, 04:37 AM
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Originally Posted by D122y View Post
Bb,

I hoped I wasn't alone on this one.

When I put the question out there I was worried it would end up buried in the stack.

I know the serenity prayer but need to Google the resentment prayer.

Thank God I am sober. Dealing w this link st 2 outbursts was easy. Back in the day it was...anything can happen time for me too....

Thanks.
This is the resentment prayer...

RESENTMENT PRAYER:

God, I have a resentment towards X that I want to be free of.
So I am asking you to give X everything I want for myself.
Help me feel compassion; understanding and love for X.
I pray that X will receive everything they need.
Thankyou for your help and strength with this resentment.


I also find this one invaluable when dealing with people who aren't behaving as I might like / hope / expect ...

God, help me to accept that people may be unreasonable and self-centred. Let me forgive them anyway.
Help me to accept that if I’m kind, people may accuse me of ulterior motives. Let me be kind anyway.
Help me to accept that if I find happiness, people may be jealous. Let me be happy anyway.
Help me to accept that the good I do today may be forgotten tomorrow. Let me do good anyway.
Help me to accept that I may give the world my best, and it may never be good enough. Let me give my best anyway.
God, help me to remember that it is between you and me. It was never between me and them anyway.


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