Thanks everyone.
Lexie - I used KBB and validated using CarMax and Autotrader, but ALCOHOL. : )
I'm working hard to keep things in perspective, but this week was a beat down. Next weekend I'll be celebrating a very big birthday and I vowed last summer that I would not be that age living with someone who verbally and emotionally abused me or who had a drinking problem they refused to address, and it looks like, knock on wood, that will be happening. For that, I am so grateful and a tiny bit proud of myself.