Originally Posted by
AnvilheadII 
ok, so besides HIS snarky comments (him being the guy in the bathrobe on self-appointed porta-potty security detail) and his lack of interest in doing stuff, what is stopping you?
i agree, that you found it necessary to stare at a porta-potty for FIFTEEN minutes to be sure your drunk off his @ss husband didn't really see someone go in (and by the way......WHO CARES who used it???) says a lot about what you have allowed your one precious life to become.
What stops me is the way he can make me feel with one small snarky comment. If he can't be happy for me doing something and makes me feel bad for wanting to go out, I won't go out because all I will think about is the attitude I will get from him upon my return and it will ruin my who outing.