Originally Posted by
AnvilheadII 
so what if all your plans and wants did not hinge on an unreliable, disappointing, embarrassing alcoholic?
you don't HAVE to live like this.............
Well my bank account wouldn't have been drained by paying all his bills and having to pay for pretty much the entirety of our shared bills. I'd have a lot more money and I'd probably hire people to do all this stuff!