Yep. It got to the point where I didn't want to go to public or private gatherings or anywhere in public venues because I got tired of the embarrassing moments.
For mine, she went "sober" for 2 years. Then it became, Oh its just wine. I can manage wine better........until she couldn't.
Don't miss that life at all.
I suspect she was never really sober, she just did a better job at hiding it. Don't know, don't care.