Originally Posted by Ariesagain

Twelve days is nothing. And if he's only doing this because there's a proverbial gun to his head, if you back down, every time you two have an argument (and you will) it will be an excuse to drink.

Go with the statistics and march on. Maybe he's really going to get it this time and you can revisit the relationship after he's been sober a year.

Sending you a hug.