I found out if he is found guilty he will receive prison sentence! I don't feel he deserves prison when he needs help.
I went to family group back when my husband was in one of his many rehabs. I thought it was a bit too focused on my husband when it should of been on me and the kids?
It would appear that he’s had the opportunity for help many times.
There are no musts in al-anon, you don’t have to speak if you don’t want to, you can just listen. Maybe gather some their reading material. The Courage To Change book is a nice daily reader.
I am sorry about your daughter and her choices. Again, I’d give al-anon a chance.