Originally Posted by
Carlito61 
Have you thought about moving out but not necessarily breaking up? You may end up enabling her behaviors as long as you are around for damage control.
I have, many times lately but it scares me of the spiral it will cause. I have left out she has a 4 year old that mainly lives with us that I am very close with. She's a great mom and does everything she can to be great. She is not abusive by any means physically but her temper when she's drunk causes her to kind of lose control verbally and emotionally. I feel like I'm painting her as a monster and she's not I just can't handle the drinking and the feel like I'm losing her over it