Originally Posted by
Ken33xx 
That's the question. Never easy to break up especially over the one issue. Unfortunately the issue in this case is major. Don't know if I would recommend breaking up just yet but any talk of marriage...
Forget it.
This isn't really one issue...it affects everything. Trust, intimacy, recreation, finances, health...I can't think of an aspect of married life it won't impact eventually.
Protect yourself, especially financially and health-wise, if you're not ready to break up. Especially make sure to avoid pregnancy. Fetal alcohol syndrome is a real possibility here and having a child will bind you permanently.