Originally Posted by
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If it were me, I would not marry her until/unless she gets sober. Her drinking will drag you down. You can let go, or be dragged.
She is displaying classic alcoholic traits, blaming you for her drinking. And as time goes on, it will only get worse.
How much are you willing to tolerate?
That's the question. Never easy to break up especially over the one issue. Unfortunately the issue in this case is major. Don't know if I would recommend breaking up just yet but any talk of marriage...
Forget it.