Originally Posted by
LexieCat 
What is it you're waiting for, at this point? I mean, I know you said you were giving it a year, but is there a reason for that? Would it maybe be in your economic interest to get this resolved legally, sooner rather than later?
I'm just standing here. Pa law says that couples divorcing have to wait 90 days apart before a divorce is granted so I don't see a hurry in any way shape or form. I'm not looking to remarry so there's no hurry there either. Everything is already split insurance wise. There is no race. I'd like to just observe him over the next year to see how long it'll take him to get down the rabbit hole. He won't stay out of it. Time has shown me this.