Originally Posted by
dandylion 
BoxinRotz......it sounds like a good move, to me.....
I wonder if he is following any kind or program....or just trying to white knuckle it....
Who knows....in one year, you may be looking at life through a totally different filter.....
I don't know what he has in place. I know what I have in place though. I take care of myself first and foremost! Since I mentioned no trust, I had to pretty much end the marriage based on his drinking and outlandish lies over the last several years.
I got to speak to the man who married us yesterday at work. He asked me what was up? I told him that he is newly sober and I was taking a year leave because he could never make it past 6-8 months sober. He said that anyone can go a quick minute without but can he go long-term? That is the question. But we're going to find out. The consequences for him drinking one more drop will be life changing for him. He'll have no one else to blame but himself.