AXBF had called me last evening but obviously it's in the blocked call list and I saw it today. I kept wondering why. 1)I shouldn't be looking at the blocked call list, it defeats the purpose. 2) He CAN ping me on office IM if it's important but he hasn't done that. I don't know why he'd do that.
I agree, it shouldn't matter why? And I also agree you need to stop looking at your blocked call list. I'm guessing he was drunk/high and it was nonsense other wise like you said if it was important he'd ping you. But really several months after a breakup, there is nothing important unless you have finances to split, a home to sell, things of that nature other wise it's all quack quack quack.