I can't think of any Trauma as such growing up. My cousin and sister were born 15 days apart and I was asked to "be the big sister and look after her" and I guess I took that role seriously. My cousin brother used to annoy her and make her cry, I would chase him around the house and fight. Obviously, the adults fought because of the kids' fight and everyone blamed me. Even though I was only three years elder. Eventually my uncle had to move out due to the fights and they all blamed me :/