Originally Posted by
TiredDad 
I was overly involved in my wife's attempt at outpatient rehab. I should have been doing more to focus on repairing and preparing myself. By not working on me I let myself trust to soon .
The relapse came and I managed better than before yet I see looking back I could have been better with seeing the signs earlier.
Yeah, I'm taking that advice. I'm going to have to watch out for the complacency that Atalose warned me about earlier. It has only been two days, but I'm already seeing how normality seeps in. I'm basking too much in the lack of constant anxiety and I risk wallowing in it without doing the intensive work that I need to do on me. This situation didn't go away. This is just a momentary reprieve and I need to take advantage of the time now that I can really focus.