He doesn't care he's ok
LYF, he is so
NOT OK; it's just that he can't see it now and may NEVER see it.
In time, though, YOU will begin to see just how NOT OK this whole thing is. In time, you can begin to learn how much more you deserve than someone who "hits you and breaks your things." You can begin to grow and heal. And anger is very likely your first step down that path. Let your anger provide the fuel to
get out of that situation. Leave him to his own devices. You do NOT need this kind of person in your life. Even if you know other people who act like this, it does NOT make it right.