I have much same thing at work at work,there is always one or two bellends - one is always the boss and other is the little back stabber who hides behind the boss and deliberately try's to drop you in it
I used to come home and hit the bottle - legitimately in my view as I had earned right dealing with said bell ends all day
Now - well it still infuriates me at time..but I take 5 minutes with my clear head now and you know what ..it's not important,even if I drink there still be bell ends,always were and always will be
5pm is done I'm clicking my heels as I'm happy,sober and you guessed it ..not a bellend!
There work colleagues and end of day that's it - surround yourself with good friends who are positive
Month on Friday for me ! Loving it 👍🏻