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Old 05-10-2017, 09:25 AM
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Originally Posted by Nikkabean326 View Post
. Most of my stresses comes from people unnecessarily CC'ing someone in an e-mail as an eff you to me. Other's involve my division moving to a different building and my department which literally houses just myself will be moved away from my team to sit with the conglomerate of dealer support representatives from the CEO's other five companies. It's pretty stressful. I've been with these people for 2 years - by the time the move happens it'll be 3 years. I just don't see how it will work since we all work so closely together. I shouldn't get myself worked up.. this is happening next year.

So - I guess I should say how do you deal with life's changes as they come without feeling the need to medicate with booze or whatever you poison might be?

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I have a hulahoop. in it are my responsabilites, goals, actions, obligations, commitments.
when I learned what belongs in my hulahoop and what belongs in someone elses, I could keep it balanced.
it can still become unbalanced at times, but I know how to balance it.

plus I don't go too far into the future. too many "what ifs."
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