A couple of questions for you to think about. No response here necessary.
What if, the next time he asks you to "hang out," you said no? What do you think would happen?
If your little sister, daughter, or best friend or anyone else you love and care about, came to you and described what you posted above as happening to her, what advice would you give her?
Do you believe that you have value and that you deserve better than what you are getting from this abusive addict?
I hope you continue to come here and talk to us. We truly do understand and would love to help you. (((HUGS)))