You need to get out this situation and do not for one second try to convince yourself that this is acceptable behavior.
My xabf has done some crazy sh*t in the past and i stayed for 5 years pretending it was ok because he didn't do anything since the first or second year we dated, e.g. throwing lamps, punching doors, cutting and burning himself, pulling my hood, throwing my purse on the ground, putting his hand around my neck yelling at me telling me to admit I was a "piece of sh*t," throwing knives into a table. This doesn't appear to be as severe as your situation. Point is, I know it is hard when you love someone. It is easy for people to say "just get out.". I've been there, but intimate relationships are not based on unconditional love and you have a right to have standards. You don't stand for physical OR verbal abuse just because you love someone.
This guy has a LOT of issues he has to sort out. Get the F out, please!