Thank you for the condolences. Just want to say you're doing a great job by letting your AH find his own way out of this, if he wants to.
What I've learnt is that you can't beg, nag or threat an addict into recovery. If they want to they'll do it, if not they won't, and it's extremely tragic we can't do anything about it. Even if they go to rehab they can relapse anytime. Unfortunately there are no gurantees with an addict.
I wish I could have done something to save my AH, but by reading posts and by the support of great people on here I've learnt that what I did, didn't do wouldn't have mattered. What matters is the addicts will/lack of will to engage in recovery.
You're doing the right thing.You're a smart and brave woman.Take care of yourself Deelilah