Welcome back FTS. So your the one with all the furniture that I've heard about. A continuation is for 90 days. Its such a short time. It's not the year to make really true changes. He will only make the changes he wants to make for the length of time he wants to make them. Once he's out of the vice he has has no reason to change. I've stopped one divorce and I'm back to divorce number two with him. H will also be abusive and start drinking again once I stop the divorce. I don't _trust_ him to be otherwise.
I also fear my children's reaction but it's also my life to grab my happiness.