Originally Posted by
Ariesagain 
He's trying to sabotage your escape route AND make sure the world continues to revolve around him.
Run.
I keep looking at your word. Run.
I've been running. I've been running for years on end. Trying desperately to fix fix fix...part of my OWN dysfunctions for sure.
A lot of these problems rest squarely on the shoulders of AH.
But alot of these problems exisist because I ALLOW them to continue.
I could have RAN a long time ago.
I SHOULD have ran a long time ago.
So what does that say about me?
I think some of what I need to explore (yet AGAIN) is why I feel like this is a situation in which I need to continue to be apart of?
I mean, the divorce is filed. Thats a plus. But I'm sad about it, I won't deny it. And that screams to me that I am just as much apart of the problem as he is. This knife cuts two ways.
I need to take responsibility for that. That is crucial IMO.
Free is also responsible for her happiness and when she continues to surround herself with those who continually make happiness/peace/serenity "off limits" then she is in-so-facto doing it to herself...does that make sense?