Yes, Lex,
I think you're absolutely right.
My "points" are "pointless"
It's been a lot of years now, and it's still the same old crap.
The final date is July 6th. I've got two more months....
And yes, to everyone who asked, we are still living together. I couldn't honestly make it through school without his financial support. And plus, we haven't told the kids what's going on yet. According to them, everything is perfect- especially with dad not drinking anymore.
My youngest son will be crushed. He is just in love with AH. They are two peas in a pod. And with AH's abuse being so insidious and behind closed doors, he will probably not really understand. He's 11 and just adores every move AH makes. Truly they are very close... and that saddens me greatly.
But I'm hoping that one day, they will understand that I had to do it for me.
AH is a fine father...I wish I could explain the depths of the abuse more.. because it's one of those things were you'd just have to experience it to know. The community just thinks he walks on water. Everyone loves him...
UGH...if they only knew.