So what exactly are you seeking here then Sprtslife? We understand you aren't happy that your wife has given you an ultimatum about your drinking. You also agree that your best choice is to stop drinking. And yes we understand you don't like the fact that you've been asked to stop drinking - none of us did either.
You have a 2 choices basically - accept that drinking is a problem and move forward or fight it. We can help you with the former, you are kind of on your own if you choose the latter.