Feeling much calmer tonight. Took a melatonin hoping that may help. AH comes over because he claims he wants to see kids every day. He truly thinks he's a great dad even though my son said he had no idea where my daughter was when he woke up...my 14 year old knows he is really in charge & my daughter knows to tell her brother which neighbor she's at. We just find it easier to live our lives around him than to provoke. I'm hoping by some miracle our house will sell & we can have our own place. Will definitely be easier to set boundaries when he's not paying the mortgage. Thx for all of the support-don't think I would have gotten through these past few days without you all!