Originally Posted by
TiredDad 
I know it would take a ton of crystal clear, long term actions for me.
They set it up, they make the choice. They make it visable and tangible.
I heard a lot of words over the years. Actions are what I should have listened too
I'm learning that, yeah. I know that this is far from a guarantee that he's going to try and actually recover. It's just one little move in the right direction, assuming he actually does this. If he doesn't, he'll be high again in days and I'll be getting out.