So it’s the office IM that keeps you attached to him, keeps you in a constant state of worry and frenzy with all kinds of made up lies in your head about how bad off he is….hummm maybe it’s time to think about a new job.
We actually do have to take steps in order to achieve our own recovery and some of those steps may seem drastic but are very necessary.
I hope you do not have any expectations of him recognizing your Bday because I think you will be very disappointed.