FallenAngelina

I'd start by thinking about what you do have say-so about that is your self-perception. The fear that no one will ever want us is a powerful fear indeed and likely is driving much of your thought right now, but remember that it is just a fear - not Truth. The world is full of many examples to the contrary of this fear. For a woman, this particular fear can decimate her entire life, it's that powerful.

You'll get some wonderful responses here about what to do in terms of him, but I just wanted to address this one aspect of your post. Our self-perception is everything and sets us up for how we perceive all of life. It's also the one aspect of life that we have complete control over - that's the good news.