well goodness, that's a lot of body blows all at once. your head must be spinning, hon!!
what an utter putz. ugh.
i'm not going to say it's for the best or that it will all be ok - not right now anyways. lol it's good you are thinking of the finances and seeing an attorney - those are crucial components to getting thru this in one piece.
for now just a big ole hug....or six!