Originally Posted by
JUK 
I notice my post has had hundreds of views compared to replies - I know that's because my situation is so reprehensible and unpalatable for so many people - I feel shamed and judged but fair enough - I deserve it
now, take a few minutes to look at all of the other threads here. see how many views and replies on them?
the reasons why the difference in views and replies varies, but it has nothing to do with what you perceive.
now onto solutions
1st a drink wont help.
now,throw out the asskikin machine. it aint helpin you or your wife.
now, reread the replies here. theres more solutions.
and im sure there will be others along with experience that will give more solutions