Originally Posted by
spookyboo22 
Thanks anvilhead for the reply!
In the big scheme of things telling him I think he may be very poorly isn't a big deal.
He's either going to ignore it or bury his head in a glass of whiskey or do something.
I agree Spooky that what you say to him isn't a big deal. In my day I spent a lot of time thinking about what to say and how to say it. None of it in the end really mattered.
What has been a huge deal in the end is learning to keep my sticky fingers out of other folks lives. I still struggle with this. Learning to respect others' choices no matter how poorly informed, disastrous, or misguided has been like learning to love in a way that goes waaaay beyond any Hallmark concept of love.