Hi Mpie - welcome
yeah for me recovery - whatever method - has to be an ongoing process - even when you're doing fine.
I had some pretty whack ideas before I got to this point tho and it sounds like maybe your BF is a little Less than totally committed right now?
who knows why...scared of change maybe, bargaining a little to keep the door open to some more drinking...only doing enough to keep you and others off his back...I dunno...
the big question is what do you want to do about it?
Where do you see this relationship going if there's no change?
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