Yep. This is what sort of floored and stuck with me the most is how well they lead this double life. After mine unraveled I began to think, how on earth do they find the time to do all of this. I mean my ex would be out having sex by the time I had gotten on a plane to leave for a trip somewhere.
Its like....How on earth can they mange it!
Then you find out they have a running list of places, people and ways to quickly do something. Mine would post ads pretty much all the time simply having a ready source of men to fall back on.
I learned that this isn't all that uncommon with addicts.