Ok my peeps.... I only had two written responses that I was going to choose from and email him. I didn't do either. I filed it in my emails under his name and never sent anything. press ignore!!
You guys are right, nothing has changed, he is still a train wreck, and his life has gotten worse. Not my circus, not my monkeys.
Once again, you saved my heinie. and all the garbage that would have come with it. Thank you my friends!!