Well, I guess I have to be hearing a differant drummer here.....I think this guy is passive aggressive and a drunk. He's getting his kicks out of messing with your emotions. I suggest you dont let him know you give a darn abuot anything he says and I bet he bugs off on his own. I'm really sorry your hurting like this I know the heart break you feel when an addict or someone associated gets in your heart, IT HURTS!! Lots of prayers for you and remember everyday to see something beautiful in your life, it will be a moment that he cant torment you in. Lots of Hugs