"He made me angry, made me feel bad one time. I will show him. I'm going to feel angry, feel bad many times. He doesn't even have to know about it. I'm going to bury this rotten feeling deep inside myself and stew in it. It's going to control where I go, what I do and when I do it. That'll fix him."
I'm going to be aware of what I'm doing to myself. I'm going to learn what passion feels like without it consuming me. I'm going to let love dictate my actions. That'll fix me.