I find although I am angry with him, I am more angry with myself. Angry that I put up with what I did, angry that I allowed myself to believe his lies, angry I didn't take better care of myself while he was drinking ie. Al anon, just angry that I was so much in denial, I was gulible and stupid.
ohhh HG - me too! i think most of the anger i EVER felt was more directed at myself, not anything else. anger that i waited so long to get help for ME, not focus on his business.
i truly hope whatever comes to be in your life that you will find a way to release the anger and will have peace and serenity in your life.