I made my house a no alcohol zone - I figured if I couldn't be comfortable in my own home where could I be.
I understand that not everyone can do that though but I hope you give it some thought.
There are some good tips here - don't worry about the thanksgiving title...it applies to any social occasion.
https://web.archive.org/web/20160817...val-guide.html
[the original site has gone - this is just an archived version. Perfectly safe
]
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