I just became sick and tired of being sick and tired - drinking became more wearisome and painful than not.
At times an intervention with loved ones may lead to a rehab and potentially fuel seeking sobriety. This may plant a seed that grows in the future if nothing else.
Experience shows one that one has to be willing - have a desire to quit. However, willingness to be willing may occasionally be thrust on another.
Regardless, consider seeking help for yourself.