Originally Posted by
atalose 
Do you remember this post you wrote……..
He hasn’t changed, you are able to see him in a different light today then you could in the past.
Hang in there, a judge and court will see exactly what he is doing. He sounds like he is trying to wear you down so that you will just give up and he won’t have to be responsible for anything.
yes .. I remember so well..
then the what if sets in....
I'm I being judgmental as he says about him drinking every day?
STXBH words not mine ( He's not belligerent when drunk. He is in his own zone. I am the one with the problem because I don't drink. I sit in judgment of those who do. He is grown and if he wants to drink everyday why can't he? He goes to work and deposits his check why can't I just let it be? ) SMH
These are the words I heard THEM for so many years I can recite them on command.